Communication Woes

[unspeakablehorror]

I have a distinct problem in that I often want to communicate a very specific message but that I also often seem to lack the ability to articulate that message.  This either results in me communicating something I feel does not entirely reflect my intent, or just not saying anything at all in order to avoid mangling what I want to say.  It's really very irritating.  But sometimes, I can communicate exactly what I'm thinking and it just seems so easy.  Why can't I just be able to do that all the time?  I'd like to at least be able to understand better what the difference between the situations is, so I could maybe do something about it.

Comments

[reg_flint]

The only reason I have written fanfic is that the author both let me down and inspired me. I wanted to read a story they or others have not provided. Their fictional worlds charge the imagination. Their lack of my wishes for content makes me create something. I prefer working on my own stories.
The problem is an inability to solve the problem in a way that works for you? I'm not sure I follow you.

[unspeakablehorror]

Well, as I said, I often have difficulty communicating with people, so perhaps it is not surprising to not follow what I'm saying. My communication issues mean I may have certain atypical problems in this area.