Spiteful Inaction
Jan. 20th, 2022 02:44 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
unspeakablehorrorMe: Doesn't do something.
Me, told I should feel bad for not doing something: Doesn't do the thing, now with added spite!
ramble-tags: this only applies in certain narrow ways, like reblogging a specific guilting 'reblog this or you're evil' post or other specific instances where guilting is involved, I may agree with a larger cause in which case I will still try to do things to forward that cause even if I encounter people also involved with that cause who do this, pretty much every group has people who do this after all, but if I don't agree with the cause, the above absolutely applies to the whole deal, and this can absolutely sour me on particular individuals, even though I try my best not to be my most vindictive me, I do think a certain degree of firmness on this matter is called for however, and regardless of how I conduct myself, there will be feelings of spite involved
Me, told I should feel bad for not doing something: Doesn't do the thing, now with added spite!
ramble-tags: this only applies in certain narrow ways, like reblogging a specific guilting 'reblog this or you're evil' post or other specific instances where guilting is involved, I may agree with a larger cause in which case I will still try to do things to forward that cause even if I encounter people also involved with that cause who do this, pretty much every group has people who do this after all, but if I don't agree with the cause, the above absolutely applies to the whole deal, and this can absolutely sour me on particular individuals, even though I try my best not to be my most vindictive me, I do think a certain degree of firmness on this matter is called for however, and regardless of how I conduct myself, there will be feelings of spite involved
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