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It's just as untrue to claim Europeans aren't racist as it is to claim Americans aren't xenophobic.  American xenophobia simply manifests somewhat differently than European xenophobia and European racism might manifest somewhat differently than American racism.  But it's all just different manifestations of the same thing.  Not to mention the complex ways those two things can be linked.  
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One thing that I think is incredibly vital before criticizing something is to have a clear understanding of it.  On the other hand, we generally need to have opinions on things we won't have the opportunity to fully investigate.  There simply isn't enough time or, I suspect, even the ability, for one person to learn everything they need to know to have fully informed opinions on everything important in the world.  So the most any single individual can do is to try to balance the effort to listen and understand and the effort to speak and act as well as they can. 

I've often had the problem where I spend so much time trying to investigate things that I don't act, but I've still had instances where I act hastily without sufficient thought on whether I'm making a good choice.  Of course, to evaluate an action as good or evil requires a moral judgment, which cannot be based entirely on information of any kind but instead must take into account goals as well.  Information can only tell us whether an act might help us reach a particular goal, not whether the goal itself is a worthwhile one.  So two people who believe identical information to be true may still act on it differently because they have different end goals.  When we consider this fact, we can see that differences in beliefs are not necessarily due to differences in information, even if they can be.  This is one (though certainly not the only) reason that persuasion can be so difficult.  There's often an assumption of shared end goals and while that may often be true in general, there are a lot of specifics that matter to most of us that get overlooked in such an analysis.  And of course, it's still the case that some people may have wildly divergent end goals in mind.

Anyway, just some freeform thoughts I had.  They're not...super well-organized or detailed, but I thought I'd write them down regardless.
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I think one reason it's hard for me to maintain relationships is because I tend to be hyperaware of any disagreements I have with people, but almost never feel comfortable approaching anyone about any major disagreements I have with them regardless of their own temperament.  These are deep personality flaws I have, and they seriously impact my ability to have meaningful relationships.  My lack of chill really messes with my social life, lol.

ramble-tags: yes I know it's all in my head, the question is, how do I get the worst parts of it out of my head?, I don't just want to be the kind of person who squeezes themselves into whatever ideological mode makes their friends happiest, just to resolve such feelings, but I hate feeling like there's always this distance between me and other people, and there's nothing I can do, to bridge it, and sure one can always block people or whatever, but I feel it's necessary to ask pointed questions of myself, if literally no one I know can measure up to all my expectations, I think there's something wrong with that, and just blocking everyone left and right, or ignoring everyone, isn't going to fix it

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I think I really like the idea of forming a community, but I don't want to manage it as a mod. I tend to be cautious about taking on responsibility because I know it's very hard for me to get out of situations where I overcommit. I joke that it's because I'm lazy, and I am, but it's also because I stress a lot about anything I see as a time commitment. That's why I don't do more exchange stories either, despite really enjoying fanfic exchanges.

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