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While I certainly don't enjoy every moment of my work, it is something I overall enjoy doing and I just wish our society weren't so dysfunctional when it comes to work. In a better society I would absolutely do this kind of thing for free, because for me it's not about the money or prestige, but about helping people, and because I just like doing the work.

In our current society, I would never ever say anything to an employer that implies the money isn't important, though. I'll say that I love doing the job (true), that I'm good at it (also true), but if an employer is not going to pay me enough, I don't want to give them any reason to believe I'll do it for them.

I think it's important to be positive and polite but firm when it comes to employers. Don't bluff and say you'll refuse an offer you might not, but if they offer an amount that's lower than you feel comfortable with, express indecision. Tell them the position sounds great but you're not sure if you'll be able to accept the offer due to the pay. And if you know an offer is too low, it will save everyone time if you mention this right away, even if it cuts the interview process short.  Time is valuable, and you will be better off spending it interviewing with places who will pay you an amount you can afford to live on.  This should ideally be one of the questions asked early in the interview process, as employers are less likely to change your pay after an offer has been made, and trying to negotiate that after the offer is made could potentially jeopardize the offer itself. Probably best to ask what you'd be doing first, but after that, ask what the pay for your position is.

Of course this advice isn't necessarily very useful to people who don't need money, but I think the majority of people very much do need money. I think trying to do a job you hate for the money alone is a recipe for disaster, but thinking the money is not important just because you enjoy the type of work offered can be equally bad. The first because it depends on a degree of willpower and indifference I don't think actually exists (and to the extent it does will likely lead to great regret down the line), and the second because almost everyone does actually need the money.

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I spent a lot of time being gloomy about it, but I actually really don't feel any sort of need anymore for travelling around beyond for necessary purposes and exercise.  Maybe this is temporary, but it's nice not to feel like I need to go anywhere 'special' and that where I am is good enough.  I like being able to go outside, but I feel like just walking around my neighborhood or hanging around at the park is plenty exciting for me.  Like just being in a lot of places, we get constantly advertised to in a way that's much more visceral and causes deeper longing than just seeing an ad on a screen.  But I largely don't get that anymore, because I almost never go anywhere to buy anything any more, or even go to public places that are indoors unless it's for a strictly necessary activity.  So if I can continue with that, I think I'll save a lot of money on stuff that I'd otherwise feel I need to be happy.  I wish I could have come to this realization without a worldwide pandemic.  Maybe if I lived in a different world, I could have lived my entire life like this.

This is bad for my in person socializing of course, but I've been thinking about that.  Eventually, after I acquire a plague doctor suit hazmat suit (perhaps a slight exaggeration--perhaps), I could schedule meetings with people outside when the weather is sufficiently favorable.  Maybe I'll just find other people who like being outside, because I know a lot of people dislike the lack of climate control.  I don't like being outside in really extreme weather, but it just being the normal amount of hot or cold, with possibly some drizzle is something I'm quite used to from never owning a car in a country with often spotty public transit.

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One of the biggest things that saves me money is that I'm lazy and don't like to go to the effort to buy things.  I even find online shopping tedious.
The other thing is that I don't like spending money, but my laziness still saves me a considerable amount of money in itself.

I'm always just like 'hmmmm, would be cool if I had X' but then I'm like 'I'll get it later'.  And then later comes and I say to myself, 'I'll get it...later'.

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